I (along with a group of peers) recently had the opportunity to speak with freshmen females about our time at Auburn. The last question was, “what would you tell your freshman self?” We all sat silently for about two minutes in our attempt to answer both adequately and honestly. Here is the advice I shared.

Do not compare your experience to those around you.

Everyone is on different paths in college. Your friends, peers, and even those in your major are on different paths. Accept this as a win, and understand that differences in thoughts, people, jobs, and experiences are what makes life so great. It is so easy to look around and see friends involved in different things, doing more or less for their major, working full-time, etc., the important thing to remember is that your experience is yours, and is unique. I wish someone had told me when I first got here to find your people, find what you're passionate about, and do your homework. 

It’s okay to change your major.

I came into college thinking that changing my major was looked down upon, and I never believed I would do it. However, I have since realized that expecting every freshman to have their future career planned out is unrealistic. I eventually applied for an on-campus job and have since found my passion, and ultimately ended up changing my major. College is meant to be a growing and learning experience, let that happen. And you can always reach out to the Career Center or a professor if you’re unsure.

Enjoy every minute.

I feel that my time in college passed by at super speed. At one moment you’re starting classes in August and then the next, the semester has already come to a close. And all that’s left are sweet memories and photos. So, take an extra hour and sit on Samford Lawn with friends, watch a sunset at the Red Barn, or get a Toomer’s Lemonade, because being in college doesn’t last forever.

Dear freshman Kazmine, it will work out and go way too fast. Change your major. Don’t compare your experience. Enjoy every minute, and…

Be Well, Auburn.